The mechanism by which the autoimmune outburst subsides simply by realizing that “the other person is a regression type” is in the way psychological trauma is created.
Young children think their parents are superior to them.
They are treated unreasonably by such parents who are superior to them.
Young children have no idea that their parents treated them childishly because their parents’ stress hormones have been lowered by the stress stimulus.
The children think, “the parents treated me unreasonably because I was a disappointment. Therefore, it is my fault for being a disappointment.” By blaming oneself, the psychological trauma of being a “disappointing child” is created.
As the parents regress and repeatedly respond unreasonably, the immune system considers the “disappointing child” as an enemy and antibodies are produced (the “disappointing child” here is used only as a sample).
When a person with such antibodies turns his attention to the same regression type as his parents and becomes nervous, the immune system attacks the “disappointing child” and inflammation occurs. The inflammation activates the peripheral immune cells, which leads to cognitive decline and disorientation and the need to “correct the other person.”
This “I have to correct the other person” is generally interpreted as “accusing the parents of being unreasonable to their young children.” But since immunity is attacking the “disappointing child,” what you are actually doing is “correcting yourself for being disappointing.” So it seems that you are attacking them to correct them, but in fact you just can’t stop attacking them to correct your disappointing self.
The realization that “the other person is a regression type” seems to be connected to “I am overlapping with my parents who were unreasonable with me in my childhood,” etc. But that doesn’t stop the attack on the “disappointing child”.
The chronic latent inflammation of the “disappointing child” is a wound created in childhood. So, if you are attacking that childhood wound, you are also regressing. This is because the stress stimulus that you receive from the regression type person causes you to return to your childhood senses.
If the other person is also regressing, and you are also regressing, then the regressed person is no longer an enemy.
The regressed person and you, who are regressed due to psychological trauma, will become one of you, so your autoimmunity will no longer be out of control. Then the inflammation will heal, cognitive functions will return to normal, and you will be able to see the other person’s life-size.
Then the stress hormones will be raised precisely by the stress stimulus from the regression type, and you will be able to choose “fight or flight” on the spot.
When the “disappointing child,” a psychological wound, was involved, while attacking the other person, you were actually attacking to correct the disappointing child, so you did not have the option to run away. When the inflammation heals, the regression type becomes a stranger, even if it is a family member, so you can choose to “not get involved!”
Before we realized that the other person was a regression type, we would be reminded of them many times later, and we could not escape the loop of the inflammation from stress hormones causing the autoimmune system to go out of control. Once the inflammation is healed and cognitive function returns and we are able to recognize the regression type as life-size, the stress stimulus from the regression type becomes an ad hoc stress hormone. The stress hormones then lead us to the option of freedom.
As this happens, the immune system increasingly stops attacking normal cells and the latent inflammation is cured (all written in narrative).
As the latent inflammation heals, the peripheral immune cells become less active, cognitive function returns to normal, and you begin to see your own life-size.
When you see your life-size self, your self-esteem will increase and you will be able to live comfortably.